logo by Wednesday, November 30, 2005
A while back, 81 Vaginas wrote something about being in junior high and about how your whole goal as a guy back then was to try and find a girl who would let you touch her.
The operative word being "let"
It wasn't so much a matter of whether she longed to be touched. Or whether you were a part of her idealized young-girl fantasies. It didn't matter what she thought about you, as long as she would "let" you slip your hand into her panties.
Back then, apparently, that was enough.
But somewhere along the line that gets old.
At 35, I want a girl who wants me just as much as I want her.
A girl who doesn't create arbitrary rules, artificial boundaries, and rigid limits.
A girl who wants to enjoy passion, togetherness, and intimacy...simply because it's fun and it feels right.
Without that it sometimes seems that I'm still stuck back in junior high.
The operative word being "let"
It wasn't so much a matter of whether she longed to be touched. Or whether you were a part of her idealized young-girl fantasies. It didn't matter what she thought about you, as long as she would "let" you slip your hand into her panties.
Back then, apparently, that was enough.
But somewhere along the line that gets old.
At 35, I want a girl who wants me just as much as I want her.
A girl who doesn't create arbitrary rules, artificial boundaries, and rigid limits.
A girl who wants to enjoy passion, togetherness, and intimacy...simply because it's fun and it feels right.
Without that it sometimes seems that I'm still stuck back in junior high.
